Hello, Beautiful Souls! 🌈
You know what they say: “You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” If you’re scratching your head thinking, “Huh, I wonder what that makes me?”—then you’re in the right place!
You wouldn’t keep eating expired food, so why keep expired relationships? Let’s get those emotional cupboards cleaned out, shall we?
Here are five essential questions to help you perform your very own Relationship Audit
1. Do They Lift You Up or Bring You Down? 🎈🔨
We all have our down days, but if someone consistently darkens your skies rather than brightens them, it’s a red flag. Evaluate whether this person energizes you or exhausts you. True friends are your cheerleaders, not critics.
2. Do You Feel Seen and Heard When You’re With Them? 👀👂
Are you an active participant in conversations, or more of a wallflower when they’re around? If your voice isn’t valued, that’s a sign. An ideal relationship is a dialogue, not a monologue.
3. Are They ‘For You’ Even When It Doesn’t Benefit Them? 🎉🤷♀️
It’s easy to support someone when you’ve got skin in the game. But what about when it doesn’t concern them? Your circle should be filled with people who champion you simply because they believe in you.
4. How Do They React to Your Success and Failures? 🌈🌧️
Some people will dance in the sunshine with you but won’t stand under the storm clouds. Note how those around you react when you’re going through highs and lows. True friends celebrate your wins and comfort you during losses.
5. Do They Encourage Your Personal Growth? 🌱💪
Birds of a feather flock together, but if you’re an eagle hanging with turkeys, you’re never gonna soar. Do your closest allies encourage you to stretch your wings, or do they hold you back?
Wrap It Up 🎁
So there it is—five game-changing questions to bring you clarity on your relationships. Don’t just skim through this. Take some ‘me-time’ and actually dig deep.
👉 Ready for more? I’d love to guide you further on this journey. Check out my Heart Academy for tailored guidance. ! Link !
Until next time, keep shining your unique light. Because trust me, the world needs it.